I'm a sub (not into pain) that loves to please. I like guys that are funny and can make me laugh but know when to get down and handle my handle. Looking for a true nude sexy mature partnership of equals who both challenge and near New York inspire each other.....but yet give one another the freedom to be who we have grown to be...in other words not wanting to change a person... Just naturally get that" togetherness" feeling that is enjoyable for both of us.Not looking for someone to make me happy for the rest of my life but i'll take it a day at a time as life is too short. And to pursue a content and loving journey together.