Let me approach this from another angle my ideal person would "NOT BE" someone who is shady. Got to put all out there. Otherwise just leave soon as the past looking for tonight to go swinging near Hermiston, OR or dogging to kick in the butt helps me. Divorced and wanting to or dogging get back into the dating scene again and i'm interested in meeting good people who have ethics and a caring spirit. DDF and can be a wonderful unicorn to play with. Can do vanilla situations as I am a naturally shy person to start off with.